Obituary: Derrick Hayes, of Street
Mr Derrick Hayes, of Street
The funeral of Derrick "Drummer" Hayes took place on January 11.
The first service took place at Portchester Crematorium, Hampshire, led by the Very Rev Paul Miles-Knight.
Family and friends met at 10.30am to say goodbye to Derrick and then set off for Somerset for a service of remembrance held at 3pm at Leigh Road Methodist Church, Street, to celebrate Derrick's life.
A congregation of more than 200 people gathered for the service led by Mr David Sawyer with Mrs Marilyn Lazenbury playing the organ. Mr Marc Folan and Mr John Folan (nephews) read the lessons and the eulogy was led by Mr David Payne representing the Street Drum and Trumpet Corp and Mrs Dorcas Hewish (Derrick's sister). Derrick was a bandsman nearly all his life and was the bandmaster of the Street Boys Brigade. The band was honoured to be invited to play as a guest band at the Royal Albert Hall in 1971 and this was a very proud moment.
Caroline, Derrick's daughter, then introduced one of his favourite hymns – Jesus Loves Me This I Know – which he would often sing, at times with Marilyn on a Sunday morning in church, or at home or in hospital. The band played Sunset which was Derrick's request and which absolutely resounded throughout the church. When the service concluded the band formed outside the church and marched off triumphantly, playing When The Saints Go Marching In, to the Victoria Club were we all met for light refreshments. A most amazingly memorable day.
Family mourners were: Mrs Jean Hayes (wife); Mrs Caroline Beaumont and Mrs Vanessa Sheppard (daughters); Mr Richard Beaumont (son-in-law); Mr Bryan Sheppard (son-in-law); Mr Nathan Sheppard (grandson); Mr Adam Sheppard (grandson) with his partner Petra Cigelska and their son Tayler (great-grandson); Miss Robyn Sheppard (granddaughter) and her fiancée Tom Godwin; Mrs Dorcas Hewish (sister) with Mr Nigel Hewish (nephew) with his wife Sandra; Mr Kevin Hewish (nephew) with his partner Andrew Leggett; Mrs Sheila Folan (sister-in-law) with her sons Marc and John Folan (rep family from Ireland, Alison, Patricia, John and Maureen); Paul Gouvignon (nephew) and his wife Hazel; Jamie Gouvignon (nephew) and his wife Vanessa.
Other mourners: Lloyd Hughes, Carol and Bob Helson; Mrs M Monaghan (rep John), Sylvia and Ian White; Gwen Griffin (rep Gordon); Josie Attiwell; Joan, Dennis and Andrew Quick; Barbara King; Geoff and Viv Forster; Tony and Jackie Daniels; Kate Page; Barbara Pippard; Ken and Edith White; Priscilla Curdy; Sue Francis (rep Neil Richards); Jon and Sandra Parsons; Janice and Derek Willcox (rep the Boys Brigade); Steve Sharp; Roy Cabble; Debbie Earner; Elaine Pettingel; Peter Preston; Gill Durston (rep Steve Durston and family); Mr and Mrs Graham Carter; Carole Bowles; Johnne Bury; Sheila Banfield; Harold Woodman (rep Judith); Andrew and Deb Rowden; Pete Vowles (rep Enid Vowles); Chris Vowles; Paul Broughton; Paul Vowles; Richard Holland; Adrian Chamberlain; Calin Elliott; David Culliford; Alan Culliford; Fred Norton (rep Margaret Norton); Eddie Rawlings; Paul Barlett (rep Mrs H Bartlett); Paul Danifall; Roger Bond; Graham Leavey; Tina and Tony Legresley; Peter Gurl; Terry Napper; June and Royston Sheppard (rep Romi and John Petts); Mr and Mrs Parsons; Mr and Mrs Edwards (rep Charlie Francis); Sandra Lamb; John Edwards; Mike White; Bridgette Norton; Viv Squires; Sue Genge (rep Eric Genge and Somerset Battalion Boys Brigade); Mary and Peter Andrews (rep Guy Andrews); Pauline Gill; John and Gill Cocks; Val Burge; Joan Payne; Clive Catley (rep Ron Adams and Donald McDonnald); Ken and Iris Ackerman; C Mirto; Margaret Parsons; John Parsons; Mr and Mrs K Matthews; Ted and Sheila Mickleburgh; Clive and Mary Ball; Tony Upshall; Rowena Harding; Dorothy Gilroy; Jean and Bryan Alvey; Sealy March; Julie Lovelace; Doug and Julie Kilborn; Gordon; Charlotte; Charlton and Hadleigh Slade; Keith and Pat Gilmore; Sabina Ellis (rep the Ellis family); David and Sheila Sawyer; Noel and Brenda Hares; Eric Summers; Joan Edwards; Tony Moore (rep Terry and Christopher Moore); Graham Lukins (rep Gordon and Vee Lukins); Jemma Saunders; Bryan and Marilyn Lazenbury; Margaret Burge (rep Geoff Richard); John Clare (rep Ken Clare); Rodney Humphrys; Graham Redwood (rep Elsie Redwood and Sister Jean in Canada); Alan and Jane Masters; Joan Hole (rep Denise Hole); Kathleen Hawkins (rep the Hawkins family); Mary Carpenter (rep the Carpenter family and Mrs B Bartlett); Adrian and Sandra Wells; Terry Culliford; Valerie Appleby; Margaret Durbin (rep Jack and Neal Durbin); Barbara Howlett (rep Mike Howlett and Gill Shire); Margaret Bolt; Terry and Margaret Culliford; Rita Parsons; Adrian Huggett; Gill Norman; Jean Speed; Mr and Mrs Steve Mirto; Mrs C Earner; Ken Baker; Ray Wall, Mr and Mrs Warren Hughes; Paul Culliford; Cynthia and Desmond Summerhayes (cousin); William Hayes (rep Margaret Clark) (cousins); Marie West; Josphine Lillico; Audrey Wharton; Rev Bob and Vera Parker; Jill Griffin; Ron Sapsead (rep Stephen and Leslie Sapsead, Australia); Mike Thornton; Angela Hooper; Angela and Tom Nutt; Jane Brown; Rodney Shepherd; Janet Day (rep Gwynne Brindley); Sue Hunt; John Hender.
The members of the band who played in the church were: Trevor Norton, David Payne, Pete Burge, Adrian Huggett,Alison Mickleburgh, Julie Norton and John Flagg.
This obituary was provided by the family.
For more obituaries, see page 24.